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(He deserved it; he called me a really horrible name.) So, allow yourself to pack it up and head home to order Seamless and watch reruns of Similarly, don’t drag yourself out of the house if you’re feeling like staying in. But recently, I’ve realized how important it is for me to not make every social interaction about meeting men.So, before I go out, I ask myself: If the answer is the latter, I force myself to stay in and chill.While online dating is my main channel for picking up dudes, I’ve met many young gents the “traditional” way — half-drunk in a weather-inappropriate skirt at a dive.
But, what I don’t go for is the idea that you need to go on some chick lit journey of self-discovery if you're single.
You don’t have to take up yoga or go to Cabo with your girlfriends or learn how to roll sushi.
Most of the time, the advice is written by people who’ve found partners and can now condescend to tell you exactly what to do to be as blissfully paired as they are (or, at least, that’s what it feels like).
I think you’ll agree with me when I say: Fuck that noise.
But, in reality, we can’t always manipulate and change a relationship scenario, because there are other autonomous humans involved.
The whole thing eventually becomes exhausting and, frankly, total bullshit.I sometimes haven’t realized how horrible some ex’s behaviors have been before I started screaming obscenities into my pillow about how gross they were. Just don’t do it to their face — especially if you’re in a public setting.(Raise your hand if you’ve ever read an article that tells you that being single is the perfect time to find yourself. I’ve gotten so comfortable with myself in the months and years that I’ve been single — comfortable in ways I may not have been had I not had this time alone.They don’t care about text messages, but make sure not to text him more than twice in an hour.I can see why the advice is framed like this: By telling women it’s their fault, the advice promises that we’re able to change the situation — we’re the masters of our own destinies!It’s Not You is where I write to calm the voices in my head — and hear from all of you.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating